Reseña del libro "The Protocol and Etiquette for Successful Couples (en Inglés)"
A book in which the etiquette rules would be applied in relation to the love field. She gives us is of great value to all those who have a partner or aspire to have one. Within the framework of a relationship guided by good manners & moral principles, the author leads us by the hand spontaneously, colloquially, and intimately on the path of building a loving relationship. From the moment he and she meet each other - going through the first kiss to the point where they both become intimate.Chapter I outlines, in a practical way, how and where to search for a partner. Chapter II puts us on the exciting terrain to assertively define what we really want from a relationship and from our future spouse/partner from self-knowledge and other persons. Regarding the importance of maintaining those good manners that we showed at the beginning of the romance, I fully agree with the author. I know that many of the couples who come to see me in my office have forgotten the application of the Golden Rule in their own homes. They treat a stranger better - someone they had never seen before - rather than the person chose to accompany them for the rest of their lives. Chapter III refers to the beginning of the relationship. The author gives us her opinion on the age difference between the couple. Among other topics to consider is online dating as a valid method to get to know someone. This chapter also suggests that we evaluate well the levels of compatibility with the person we date, especially the values that govern their life.In Chapter IV we are suggested not to hasten the arrival of the passionate kiss; and I agree with that. Numerous studies have shown that a well-given kiss is the bridge to sexual encounter. Through saliva, man transmits testosterone to the woman and vice versa, and both are ignited with increased sexual desire. If this kiss is shared before we get to know each other, at least slightly well, it can obfuscate reason and lead us to live the experience of a "blind" love." And this is even more so if there is premature sex. In Chapter V, we are advised not to enter the marriage commitment if one or both of us have the word "divorce" written on the forehead as an escape route when things are not going well. As the author tells us: "This would be like investing in a company - which you consider successful at first - with the idea of it failing."Chapter VI comes loaded with good advice to make the long-awaited intimate encounter unforgettable, considering details that many people overlook. Finally, in Chapter VII, the author essentially ventures into the emotional and spiritual terrain with the "7 C", based on her book "Living in Harmony," which will help us to have a good relationship; and provides some valuable final recommendations.This is an excellent book of protocol and etiquette for a successful relationship. The author's advice advances the possibilities for coexistence in harmony for those couples who want to build a solid, happy, and lasting relationship. Cecilia Alegria -Dr. Love.
